Spiritual resources offer a unique dimension of healing and empowerment that addresses not just the immediate symptoms of crisis, but the underlying human need for purpose, connection, and transcendence. These resources have sustained countless generations through their darkest hours and continue to serve as beacons of light for those seeking restoration and renewal. Understanding and accessing these spiritual tools can make the difference between merely surviving a crisis and finding profound transformation through it.

The Foundation of Prayer and Meditation

Prayer and meditation stand as perhaps the most fundamental spiritual resources available to humanity during times of crisis. These practices create a sacred space where individuals can step away from the chaos of external circumstances and connect with a deeper source of peace and wisdom. Prayer, whether offered individually or in community, provides a direct channel for expressing fears, gratitude, hopes, and requests for guidance to a higher power.

The act of prayer transforms our relationship with crisis by shifting our perspective from one of helplessness to one of active spiritual engagement. When we pray, we acknowledge that there are forces greater than ourselves at work in the world, and we open ourselves to receiving divine guidance and comfort. This practice has been documented across cultures and religions as a powerful tool for reducing anxiety, increasing resilience, and fostering a sense of purpose even in the most challenging circumstances.

Meditation complements prayer by teaching us to quiet the mind and find stillness amidst the storm. Through regular meditation practice, individuals develop the ability to observe their thoughts and emotions without being overwhelmed by them. This skill becomes invaluable during times of crisis when fear and uncertainty can easily dominate our mental landscape. Meditation helps us access our inner wisdom, maintain emotional equilibrium, and respond to challenges from a place of centered awareness rather than reactive panic.

Sacred Texts and Ancient Wisdom

Sacred texts from various spiritual traditions offer timeless wisdom that speaks directly to the human experience of suffering and redemption. The Bible, Quran, Torah, Bhagavad Gita, and countless other spiritual writings contain stories, teachings, and principles that have guided humanity through millennia of challenges. These texts serve as repositories of collective wisdom, offering perspectives on pain, loss, hope, and transformation that transcend cultural and temporal boundaries.

Reading and studying sacred texts during times of crisis provides multiple layers of spiritual nourishment. First, these writings remind us that we are not alone in our struggles; countless others have faced similar challenges and found ways to overcome them. Second, they offer practical guidance for navigating difficult circumstances with integrity, compassion, and faith. Third, they connect us to a larger narrative of human experience that gives meaning to our individual suffering.

The stories of biblical figures like Job, who maintained his faith despite tremendous loss, or the teachings of Jesus about finding strength in weakness, provide powerful examples of how to approach crisis with spiritual maturity. Similarly, the Psalms offer a raw and honest expression of human emotion that validates our deepest fears while pointing toward hope and divine intervention. These texts become companions in our journey, offering comfort, challenge, and clarity when we need them most.

The Power of Community and Fellowship

Spiritual community represents one of the most powerful resources available during times of crisis. When individuals come together in faith, worship, and mutual support, they create a network of care that extends far beyond what any single person could provide alone. Churches, synagogues, mosques, temples, and other spiritual communities serve as sanctuaries where people can find both practical assistance and emotional support.

The importance of fellowship during crisis cannot be overstated. Being surrounded by others who share similar values and beliefs creates a sense of belonging and purpose that helps individuals maintain hope even when circumstances seem overwhelming. Spiritual communities offer opportunities for collective prayer, shared meals, financial assistance, and emotional support that address both the material and spiritual needs of those in crisis.

Moreover, serving others within a spiritual community provides a pathway out of self-focused anxiety and into purposeful action. When we shift our attention from our own problems to the needs of others, we often discover that our own burdens become more manageable. This principle of service as a spiritual practice has been recognized across religious traditions as a powerful tool for healing and transformation.

Nature as a Source of Spiritual Renewal

The natural world offers profound spiritual resources that are freely available to all humanity. Throughout history, people have found solace, inspiration, and divine connection through their relationship with nature. Mountains, oceans, forests, and even simple gardens provide spaces where individuals can experience the presence of the sacred and gain perspective on their troubles.

Nature teaches us about cycles of death and rebirth, the power of patience and endurance, and the interconnectedness of all life. These lessons become particularly relevant during times of crisis when we may feel disconnected from our purpose or overwhelmed by circumstances beyond our control. Spending time in natural settings can reduce stress, improve mental clarity, and restore our sense of wonder and gratitude.

The practice of nature-based spirituality can be as simple as taking walks in local parks, tending to plants, or sitting quietly outdoors while observing the sky. These activities help us remember that we are part of something larger than ourselves and that the same creative force that sustains the natural world is also at work in our own lives, even during the most difficult seasons.

Acts of Service and Compassion

Finally, engaging in acts of service and compassion serves as both a spiritual practice and a powerful resource for healing during times of crisis. When we reach out to help others who are suffering, we tap into the fundamental spiritual principle that giving and receiving are interconnected. Service transforms our relationship with our own pain by providing channels for expressing love and care that transcend our personal circumstances.

Compassionate action takes many forms, from volunteering at local charities and visiting the sick to simply offering a listening ear to someone in need. These acts of kindness create ripple effects that extend far beyond their immediate impact, contributing to a web of care and support that strengthens entire communities. Through service, we discover that our own struggles can become sources of empathy and wisdom that enable us to help others navigate similar challenges.

The spiritual dimension of service lies in its capacity to connect us with our highest values and deepest sense of purpose. When we act from a place of compassion, we align ourselves with the divine qualities of love, mercy, and justice. This alignment provides a sense of meaning and direction that helps us transcend the limitations of our circumstances and find hope even in the darkest times.

These five spiritual resources work together to create a comprehensive framework for navigating crisis with faith, resilience, and purpose. By cultivating these practices and drawing upon these sources of strength, individuals and communities can not only survive difficult times but emerge from them with deeper wisdom, stronger relationships, and a more profound sense of their connection to the sacred dimensions of existence.

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Guest Author Bio
Dilawaiz Yousafi

Dilawaiz is a skilled digital marketer specializing in SEO, social media, and content strategies. Passionate about helping businesses grow online, Dilawaiz shares actionable tips to empower entrepreneurs and boost digital success.

Love is an emotion. A very powerful one at that. When one thinks of love, all kinds of things come to mind. Movies perhaps, like Casablanca, The Way We Were, Ghost, Pretty Woman, Gone With the Wind. Or maybe a song, like “Baby I Love Your Way” by Peter Frampton, “All Out of Love” by Air Supply, “Best of My Love” by the Eagles. Or memories of the ’60s may evoke feelings of love  – Haight-Ashbury, hippies, flower power, make love not war. Without love, where would we be?

Our early love affair with our parents would’ve had a major influence, one would think, on how we would love in our adulthood. It would also have had an impact on our relationships with our friends, our lovers and later on, our own children. Mother Teresa once said, “We can do no great things, only small things with great love.”

Love has the power to move mountains. It can cause great men to weep, and it can bring those same men to their knees. Love can change everything. It can change how you see the world and how the world sees you.

Love has inspired men and women all over the world to create and to spread their wings where once, perhaps, they would not have had the courage. Love has been sought after by great poets, singers, writers and directors.

Love is defined in the Webster’s dictionary as a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties, maternal for a child; attraction based on sexual desire, affection and tenderness felt by lovers; affection based on admiration, benevolence or common interests.

Love is what makes the world go ’round, or so the saying goes. It is one of the most powerful emotions known to man. It encompasses so many different realms, yet is so simple. Love is the one emotion that is difficult to define. In fact, in some cultures, there is no word for love. Therefore it can be said that love has many different meanings for many different people.

What’s love got to do with it? I can only conclude that love pretty much has to do with anything and everything, and anyone who is good and kind and joyful. Love is for those of us who are hopeful and happy. It gives us strength, power and the courage to continue on this journey we call life.

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This same truth reveals itself in nature, too. Survival in thriving ecosystems like coral reefs hinges on collaboration, mutual reliance, and balance. Like in the natural world, your well-being depends on the care you give and receive within your relationships. Belonging is a vital part of living fully and growing with purpose.

Let’s explore how nature, family, and community show us how connection forms the foundation for a meaningful life and how you can nurture that sense of belonging daily.

Lessons From Nature: Building Strong Communities

If you’ve ever watched a coral reef bloom with color and motion, you’ve seen how life is never solitary. Every fish, plant, and coral plays a role in maintaining the reef’s delicate harmony. These underwater communities thrive not through dominance or competition, but through connection and care.

That balance can be recreated at home. Families who set up a reef tank participate in a shared experience that mirrors the natural world. Maintaining this small ecosystem fosters patience, teamwork, and curiosity. Building a thriving reef tank offers a meaningful way to experience interdependence firsthand and to watch how nurturing one small world can strengthen bonds across your own.

Watching your reef tank flourish requires commitment, communication, and shared responsibility. This way, it reflects the kind of care that strengthens human bonds. Just as coral and cleaner shrimp depend on one another to stay healthy, people thrive when they feel supported and needed. Communities and families grow stronger when everyone has a role to play and is encouraged to show up fully. The connections that hold us together aren’t accidental. They are built, maintained, and nourished through mutual effort.

The Importance of Family and Generational Bonds

Now think about your own family. When those connections are healthy, they serve as a powerful anchor. They shape your identity, offer stability in times of change, and provide a network of emotional support. But maintaining those ties across generations can feel challenging in a world that constantly pulls you in different directions. It helps to be intentional. Strengthening family bonds across generations through small rituals, regular conversations, and shared experiences can go a long way in bridging gaps and deepening trust.

These relationships take work. Modern life often pushes family members into isolated roles, separated by distance, time, or misunderstandings. Differences in values or communication styles between generations can add even more friction. But strong bonds don’t happen by accident. They form through persistence, empathy, and a willingness to meet each other where you are. It might mean creating new habits that encourage connection or revisiting old ones that have been lost.

Overcoming Barriers to Connection

That work is even more critical when you live in a multigenerational household. Tension can skyrocket when expectations clash or space feels limited. But you can shift the atmosphere with a few intentional choices.

Set clear boundaries that respect each person’s privacy and needs. Establish routines that foster cooperation rather than conflict, and make time to acknowledge each other’s efforts, even in small ways. Transforming the challenges of multi-generational living into opportunities for connection starts with these adjustments.

Respecting Our Shared Environments

Connection begins at home and continues in how you engage with the world. Just as a coral reef depends on the choices of those who visit it, the environments you share with others reflect the respect and care you give them.

When you act with intention, you protect natural ecosystems and the emotional ecosystems you live in daily. There’s a reason small signs near the ocean ask you not to walk on the coral. The damage may be invisible at first, but over time, careless steps erode the things that make those places beautiful. The coral beneath your feet is more fragile than it seems, a quiet reminder that mindful choices protect what matters most.

The same is true in relationships; small moments of carelessness can slowly chip away at trust. But you build something lasting when you choose kindness, presence, and respect. That foundation creates a sense of belonging that supports you through life’s inevitable storms.

Belonging as a Key to Personal Growth

People who feel rooted in their relationships are more resilient, confident, and at peace. With a steady support system, it’s easier to explore new challenges, take healthy risks, and bounce back from setbacks. The impact is profound. The power of belonging to a connected community creates emotional well-being that ripples outward, strengthening individuals and the spaces they move through.

Building Belonging Through Relationships

You don’t need a dozen new connections to feel that impact. Sometimes, one deeply rooted relationship is enough to anchor you. When you create space for honesty, listen without judgment, and offer support without conditions, you nurture something far more valuable than surface-level connection. Trust grows, communication deepens, and the relationship becomes a place where both people can thrive. Building a sense of belonging through meaningful connections often begins with intentional moments: a shared meal, an open-hearted conversation, a small act of care.

Conclusion

Every meaningful connection you create adds to a greater whole. The effort matters whether you’re tending to a reef tank, navigating a busy household, or having a quiet coffee with a loved one. These are the roots that hold you steady when things feel uncertain. And these are the seeds of the kind of world you want to live in.

Belonging isn’t something you stumble upon. It’s something you build. With time, care, and attention, you can create a connection-filled life that feels whole, grounded, and shared. And that effort is always worth it.

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Guest Author Bio
Charlie Fletcher

Charlie Fletcher is a freelance writer from the lovely “city of trees”- Boise, Idaho. Her love of writing pairs with her passion for social activism and search for the truth. When not writing she spends her time doodling and embroidering. And yes, she does love all kinds of potatoes!

“The School of Athens” by Raffaello Sanzio da Urbino

Walking the streets of ancient Athens during my travels two years ago, I imagined Socrates conversing with people my age in another time. By touching upon the tangible markers that inspired Plato’s text, I re-construed his philosophy in its original context. I realized that Plato’s dialogues are a product of Socrates’ initial goal of inspiring conversation in public spaces with ordinary citizens to question their pre-existing ideas. My love for the humanities lies in its ability to challenge how the world is and imagine how it should be. In an age of distractions, where information is abundant but focus and empathy are scarce, sitting with Socrates demands sustained attention and a pursuit of ends rather than means.

A course I took required every participant to give a presentation on the philosophers important to our culture, I focused my analysis on Spanish philosopher José Ortega y Gasset’s notion that, “Since love is the most delicate and total act of a soul, it will reflect the state and nature of the soul.” Encountering his conception of love as a reflection of the soul, I couldn’t help but think back to Plato’s theory of the tripartite soul. Both philosophers, though separated by two millennia, seek the nature of the soul by examining ideals: justice on the one hand and love on the other. In comparing these texts, I realized that we can only understand ourselves by seeking to understand the ideals to which we aspire. It is through the study of the humanities that I hope to further grasp those ideals and strive to embody them myself.

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Yumeng Fan

Originally from Barcelona, Spain, Yumeng loves ballroom dance, Hispanic literature, collage-making, and the wide, tangled worlds of literature, science, poetry, and art.

Novelist Sigrid Nunez captures well this facet of getting older with relation to time. It passes. We lose things. There is some brain science around the idea that nostalgia is seductive because it reminds us of our sense of self or our identity over time. So if you’re very old, you might see change (the future) as threatening while the past appears more stable, even though that past no longer exists.

A couple of years ago I reconnected with an old friend who eventually found this picture he had taken of me at nineteen. I’d never seen it before. It startled me to see this young version of myself as I have only one other photo from this period of my life. One. Contrast that with the modern mania of capturing every experience on a phone. No one took photos in those days of course, unless you were a serious photographer with a heavy piece of equipment around your neck. Photos evoke memories. When we look at ourselves in old photos, the memories that come up are usually around where we were and with whom? What was I doing? Not how was I feeling? Who did I think I was at that age? Can a photograph evoke that? This photograph was taken in one of the most formative years of my life. Despite constantly forgetting these days where I put down my glasses, my long term memory remains relatively intact. I remember this nineteen year old well. She felt on the verge of everything.

Most of the young people I know (including my own son) are already a decade beyond this youngster that from my vantage point now, seems like a mere child, even though in my heart I felt nothing like a child then. Or was trying hard not to. I was newly navigating adulthood, courting and experiencing all the things one needs to form a life on that shaky road: love, friendships, adventure, education, heartbreak and even danger.

A few years before college and armed with mostly defiance and a sense of adventure, at age 18 I left home with two childhood friends carrying an excitement I can still feel viscerally, just as clearly as I can see my mother standing in the doorway of my childhood home. She was waving goodbye and looking about as bewildered and concerned as any mother in those days who didn’t understand her teenage daughter would.

Living on my own with a revolving door of roommates on the York River in Virginia with thousands of acres of state park behind our house and animals that ran wild, in 1977 we didn’t even have a house phone. Friends would show up, winding down that tree-lined roller-coaster road, often annoyed that they’d driven fifteen miles out of town to find no one home. We were unapologetic. We felt lucky. An old man neighbor when I saw him, used to comment that we lived in “God’s country”. Whenever he said it I would momentarily become a believer. That river was a steady friend and I discovered the intimacy that a river affords that is different from other bodies of water. I spent many contemplative hours on the cliffs there, watching the river run from that very high perch, the loons diving like darts into the sunlit ripples. Our rent for this idyllic setting was a cool $85 for a three bedroom house that we paid for monthly in cash.

I felt in charge of my life then; self-possessed in the face of all the uncertainty and craziness of youth. It occurs to me that those of us from my generation who ventured into the world in order to find it—and thereby ourselves— did so without much information. In the dark ages of the 60’ s and 70’s, most of us had little access to it outside of three television stations, (which we didn’t have either) a National Geographic subscription and possession of a library card. Unlike current teenagers, not much actually came to us in the passive way it does today through social media. We had to go and find it. Usually in a book. Or by the seat of our pants. There was no marketing outside of newspapers and magazines. We had handbills and word of mouth to learn about band performances and various happenings. I think the by-product of this “lack” was that my tribe and I developed fearlessness. We leapt into our lives. What we didn’t know couldn’t hurt us (even though it sometimes did). I didn’t have a plan, but barrelled through my young life accumulating experiences and putting out fires along the way.

On the cusp of becoming an artist, I worked flexible restaurant and bar hours, slinging drinks and Greek food in a university town that suited my temperament at the time. The staff consisted of students, artists, writers, musicians, and self-styled philosophers. It was a meeting place of cerebral, but wild and irreverent characters. This mixture of interesting creative and academic types contrasted nicely with the quirkier personalities of the locals. I felt like I’d landed on another planet from where I’d grown up. The south felt friendlier than the north. There was a slowness, time to amble through lots of gorgeous nature, people with whom to bounce ideas around, discussion and debate. And no Google to muddy the waters. No thought police.

Instead, there was a serious intellectual crowd that lined my path then that I considered part of my education. The air was thick with deep talk, poetry, dreams and drugs. I must have certainly been going through an existential phase when I recall my reading list in those days: Colette, Flaubert, Anais Nin, Sartre, Emerson, Henry Miller, D.H.Lawrence, along with various Buddhist and eastern philosophy texts. Are there any 19 year olds that willingly tackle such sober authors these days? In any case, I’m sure most of these would now be considered irrelevant but at the time opened up many doorways of thinking for me. I have no idea what young people are reading, or if they are. I hope so. But screens have long taken over; yet another world (the one with books) goes missing.

My “bohemian” life didn’t feel bohemian at the time. I certainly didn’t label it as that and my experience was not that much different from many people I know from my generation. I was just out in the real world, collecting experiences—both euphoric and horrific—as fodder for art. By contrast, younger generations seem saddled with a lot of college debt and anxiety about their lives and professions, amplified by cyber-bullies, world violence, climate fears, identity and mental health navigation. I ache for them. Even with the major cultural shifts of the time, my peers and I had little of that. Quite the opposite. I felt a profound sense of freedom. Of course, not being on constant news alert from the internet helped our cause. For myself, I had a certain naiveté —that would be virtually impossible now— about the world that I think served me. It taught me to trust. In books. In art. In wonder. That was the way to find a life. And to trust in that as well.

The world of my young adulthood doesn’t exist any longer. And it’s not sad. It’s simply the way things are; the way life moves. Every generation has its own experience. In any case, labeling the past as “better days” is inherently dangerous and misguided.

I am currently in the middle of Miranda July’s deeply layered (and hilarious) novel, All Fours ,where I keep finding relatable insights. July’s character notes that when we are young, so much of what you thought was you was maybe really, other people. How do we become? Growing up, I was labelled a sad child early on, always being prompted to smile. I don’t remember feeling particularly sad, but I was always thinking deeply about stuff so maybe that showed on my resting-lost-in-thought-face. I think that label imprinted on me in a way and shaped my outlook as I got older though. In other words, I learned about myself (accurate or not) through other people, as July implies.

We expose ourselves to the world. We spend our lives saying yes to this, no to that, weeding out our joys and revulsions along the way to form the basis of who we are. We become ourselves by absorption of what is in our particular air and to what degree. I’m grateful for coming of age in the pre-digital era when the world felt a little quieter; the characters and experiences that led me to becoming. Even though that world is gone, my past will always belong to me. I know the pieces of that nineteen year old I still keep.

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Guest Author Bio
Linda Laino

Linda Laino is a visual artist and writer who has been making art in one form or another for over 45 years. With an MFA from Virginia Commonwealth University, where she received two years of fellowship awards from the Virginia Museum, Laino was influenced by language from a young age, and moves between painting and writing in search of the connections and the crossover. She has shown work regularly in solo and group exhibitions since 1988, when she was awarded a prize from The American Craft Museum in New York. Her work is included in major collections including the McDonough Museum in Ohio, and Fundación Valparaíso in Spain. In recent years, she has been making art around the world at residencies in New Mexico 2015, France 2016, Spain 2018, and Maine in 2023. In June 2024, she traveled to Greece where she was awarded a grant for a month-long stay to paint on the island of Skopelos. Her poems and prose have been published with distinction in many small presses and anthologies, most recently in “La Presa” out of Guanajuato City. Her poem, Poem at Sixty was nominated for a Pushcart Prize in 2019. Originally from Philadelphia and Richmond, Virginia, since 2012, she has lived in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico where the color and flavor allow for endless inspiration.

Visit her website: www.lindalaino.com

Understanding Your Values and Strengths

Finding work that feels meaningful starts with understanding yourself, like learning what matters most to you and what kind of work energizes you. Reflecting on your values, passions, and innate strengths can help you find direction in your job search.

Journaling is a great way to start. Write about times you’ve felt most fulfilled. What were you doing? What skills were you using? A quick journal session can help you see your strengths and weaknesses more clearly and is a great way to establish new goals.

Some of the most fulfilling jobs are careers that make a difference — roles that help people, improve communities, or solve real-world problems. Teachers, healthcare workers, environmental scientists, nonprofit leaders, and mental health counselors all improve people’s everyday lives. But making a difference doesn’t have to mean working in traditional service fields. Artists inspire, engineers build important infrastructure, and entrepreneurs create opportunities for others.

Finding a role that aligns with your values and strengths will help you stay motivated and feel a sense of purpose every day you clock in.

Embracing Change and Exploring New Opportunities

Shifting careers might feel risky at first — especially if you’ve spent years in one field. However, making a career move that aligns with your purpose is sure to lead to deeper fulfillment and professional success.

One of the first steps is to mentally reframe how you see change: not as a loss or failure, but as a bold move toward something new. It helps to stay curious and open-minded, focusing on what you might gain rather than what you’re leaving behind. Reflecting on your reasons for wanting something different can strengthen your resolve and keep you focused during tough moments.

You can embrace change and prepare for a new career by taking proactive steps to build your confidence. Research industries or roles that intrigue you. Talk to people already working in those fields, and ask about their experiences. You might even try a course or volunteer work to get a taste of the new path.

Have compassion for yourself during the process. Acknowledge the courage it takes to step into the unknown and remind yourself that growth often means stepping outside your comfort zone. With each step, you’re moving closer to a life that feels aligned with who you are and who you’re becoming.

Exploring Industries That Support Local Communities

Choosing a career shapes both your future and the community around you. Some industries create jobs, strengthen local economies, and provide essential services. Researching careers with a social impact can lead to meaningful work while improving the place you call home.

Healthcare, education, and public service directly support communities, but smaller industries matter too. Restaurants impact communities by creating jobs, boosting the economy, and providing healthy meals for local people. Similarly, independent bookstores, local tradespeople, and artisan shops keep money circulating nearby, helping small economies thrive.

Turning Regret Into Opportunity

Many people look back and question their career choices. A degree that once seemed like a great idea might feel useless now. A job that once felt secure may now feel like a dead end. But instead of regretting your past choices, think about them in a new light to inspire change.

Plenty of people have found ways to turn degree regret into the perfect career opportunity. Someone with a history degree might use their research skills in marketing. A former teacher might transition into corporate training. The key to success lies in finding ways to transfer your existing skills into your new role.

Embracing new opportunities can spark periods of personal growth, too. It might mean taking a certification course, networking in a new field, or reframing past experience to match a new role. Every career misstep teaches something, and those lessons can lead to a path that finally feels right.

Aligning Career Goals With Your Ideal Lifestyle

A fulfilling career should support both your goals and your lifestyle. Work-life balance, income needs, and long-term aspirations all play a role. Some jobs offer flexibility, while others require long hours but come with higher pay. Knowing what you value most helps in choosing a path that aligns with your priorities.

Networking can provide insight into different careers. Talking to professionals in various fields helps clarify what daily life in a role looks like. Job shadowing offers hands-on experience before committing to a major change.

Considering how a career fits into your future — not just your paycheck — leads to better choices. A job should provide stability, growth, and the freedom to live the life you want.

The Power of a Purpose-Driven Career

A career that aligns with your passion, values, and skills brings lasting fulfillment. Finding purpose in your work takes time through small, intentional steps. Explore new opportunities, connect with people in inspiring fields, and stay open to change. Every step forward brings you closer to a career that feels meaningful and rewarding.

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Guest Author Bio
Charlie Fletcher

Charlie Fletcher is a freelance writer from the lovely “city of trees”- Boise, Idaho. Her love of writing pairs with her passion for social activism and search for the truth. When not writing she spends her time doodling and embroidering. And yes, she does love all kinds of potatoes!

Embracing Self-Compassion to Mend Inner Wounds

Self-compassion is a critical element of healing. It involves treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding as you would offer to a good friend. This means acknowledging your suffering without self-criticism and offering yourself warmth and unconditional acceptance. By doing so, you create a nurturing inner environment that supports healing.

Practicing daily affirmations can reinforce self-compassion. Replacing negative self-talk with positive, affirming statements can slowly shift your mindset towards one of love and self-acceptance. It’s important to be patient with yourself during this process, as old habits of self-critique may take time to unlearn.

Becoming more aware of your needs and allowing yourself to meet them is another way to foster self-compassion. This might look like taking time off when you’re emotionally exhausted or engaging in activities that nourish your soul and bring you joy. When you prioritize your well-being, you affirm to yourself that you are deserving of care and attention.

Strategies for Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Setbacks

Rebuilding self-esteem after a setback begins by setting realistic and achievable goals for yourself. Meeting these goals, no matter how small, can provide a significant boost to your self-confidence. It’s less about the size of the achievement and more about the sense of progress and accomplishment that comes with it.

An essential strategy is to surround yourself with positive affirmations and role models. The people you admire can serve as examples of resilience and determination. By learning from their experiences and adopting a similar mindset, you can infuse your journey with optimism and drive.

Another crucial aspect of rebuilding self-esteem is to avoid comparing yourself to others. Each person’s path is different, and comparisons can lead to feelings of inadequacy. Instead, focus on your unique strengths and celebrate your victories, no matter how modest they may be.

Finding Strength in Community and Support Networks

During difficult times, you may find yourself asking, “What is wrong with me?” In these times, community and support networks play an invaluable role in healing. They provide a sense of belonging and an environment where individuals can share their experiences without fear of judgment. Whether it’s a local support group, an online forum, or a circle of trusted friends, these networks offer camaraderie and empathy during tough times.

Supportive relationships also allow for constructive feedback and different perspectives that can help you navigate your healing process. This can range from practical advice to simply having someone listen, which itself can be extremely comforting. Engaging with others who understand what you’re going through can be profoundly validating and empowering.

Contributing to your community can further strengthen your sense of purpose and connectedness. Volunteering, for example, not only aids those in need but can also help you to feel more valued and competent—key ingredients for mending a sense of brokenness.

Cultivating Resilience Through Mindfulness and Reflection

Mindfulness is a powerful practice for those looking to cultivate resilience. It involves being present in the moment without judgment and with acceptance. Engaging in mindfulness can decrease stress and anxiety, which often accompany the feeling of being broken. Additionally, it can enhance self-awareness, allowing you to better understand and regulate your emotions.

Reflection is another vital component of resilience. It allows you to look back on challenging experiences with a critical eye and learn from them. This might involve identifying why a particular event was so impactful, what it taught you about yourself, and how it has shaped your understanding of the world. Through reflection, you can turn even the most difficult experiences into lessons that strengthen your character.

Altogether, feeling less broken is a journey that involves emotional healing, self-compassion, rebuilding self-esteem, finding community support, and cultivating resilience. By embracing these approaches, you can navigate through the challenges of feeling broken and emerge with a renewed sense of strength and wholeness.

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At its heart, Say It Now urges people to reach out to those who have made a profound difference in their lives, expressing gratitude and appreciation without hesitation. This simple act can change lives. But for nonprofits, gratitude is not only a personal expression—it’s also a vital tool for building stronger, more resilient communities.

Imagine a volunteer who has worked tirelessly for years, never expecting recognition. Imagine the impact of receiving a heartfelt note of thanks, acknowledging the difference they’ve made in the lives of countless individuals. Imagine a donor being told that their contribution didn’t just fund a project but changed the course of someone’s life. These moments matter, and they are what Say It Now is all about.

But the ripple effect doesn’t stop there. When someone receives a genuine expression of gratitude, they are more likely to express appreciation in return. This creates a chain reaction of acknowledgment, intention, and connection. The gratitude doesn’t just stay between two individuals—it spreads throughout communities, empowering people to build stronger, more supportive relationships.

For NGOs, Say It Now represents an opportunity to create a gratitude-driven culture. By publicly and privately recognizing staff, volunteers, donors, and beneficiaries, nonprofits can foster an environment where everyone feels valued. And when people feel appreciated, they are more engaged, more motivated, and more likely to remain committed to the cause.

Beyond the organizational impact, Say It Now is shaping the way communities interact. Whether it’s thanking a frontline worker, a teacher, or a neighbor, the movement reminds us that gratitude strengthens the social fabric that holds us together. For NGOs working in areas affected by social inequality, displacement, or conflict, gratitude can serve as a healing force—one that brings people together and reminds us of our shared humanity.

In the end, the Say It Now movement is not just about individual acts of gratitude; it’s about creating a global culture that values appreciation and connection. By embracing this philosophy, NGOs can become the driving force behind a world where gratitude leads the way.

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During his TEDx speech, Green asked a question that resonated deeply with his audience: Why wait? Why do so many of us delay sharing the words that could uplift someone, offer closure, or strengthen a connection? For Green, the regret of unspoken gratitude is personal. His journey to founding Say It Now was sparked by his own reflections on missed opportunities to acknowledge the people who had made a significant impact on his life. He came to realize that the moments we often regret the most are the ones in which we failed to let someone know how much they meant to us.

“Don’t assume you have time,” Green told the audience, encouraging everyone to take immediate action. For Green, expressing gratitude isn’t just about kindness; it’s about enriching the lives of others by sharing the appreciation we often keep inside. His message is as simple as it is profound: relationships are the cornerstone of our lives, and expressing gratitude for those relationships should never be postponed.

At its core, the Say It Now movement isn’t about casual “thank yous” or fleeting acknowledgments. It’s about creating deep, meaningful connections through genuine expressions of gratitude. Green emphasizes that it’s not just about recognizing someone for a single moment—it’s about recognizing the ongoing, sometimes quiet ways in which others help shape our lives. Whether it’s a mentor who offered guidance during a difficult time or a friend who supported you through a personal challenge, Say It Now is about telling those people how much they’ve contributed to who you are today. “Relationships matter,” Green says. “Close relationships are a treasure.”

The impact of the movement extends far beyond personal relationships. Green is quick to highlight how gratitude has profound ripple effects, benefiting mental health, overall well-being, and even workplace culture. Research has shown that gratitude strengthens interpersonal relationships, improves emotional health, and fosters positive environments. In workplaces, leaders who express appreciation create teams that are more engaged, collaborative, and motivated.

Say It Now encourages us to break the cycle of postponement and to take action—whether that’s by writing a letter, making a phone call, or speaking to someone face-to-face. By doing so, we create a cycle of intention and acknowledgment. This ripple effect builds a legacy of gratitude, inspiring others to pause and reflect: Who helped me along the way? Who made a difference in my life? Expressing gratitude not only strengthens the connection between you and the recipient but also motivates others to do the same. In this way, gratitude spreads from one person to the next, creating a broader culture of appreciation.

Since Green first took the stage at TEDx, the Say It Now movement has grown into a global initiative, touching the lives of millions. Over two million expressions of gratitude have already been shared through letters, phone calls, social media, and personal interactions. But for Green, the goal is bigger than numbers. The next milestone is to reach 10 million expressions of gratitude, but the ultimate aim is to build a worldwide community where gratitude is a daily practice and human connection is prioritized.

The movement has sparked conversations about the importance of expressing gratitude in all areas of life—from personal relationships to the workplace. Say It Now encourages us to go beyond the surface and reflect on the deep impact people have had on our lives. As Green has said, “It’s not about saying ‘thank you’ for something small. It’s about recognizing those who have played a significant role in shaping who you are.”

The message is clear: don’t wait. Time is fleeting, and the opportunity to express your gratitude may pass you by if you wait too long. By fostering a culture of gratitude, Say It Now is helping to build stronger relationships and create lasting legacies of appreciation. Whether it’s a heartfelt conversation, a simple letter, or a phone call, the time to act is now.

As Say It Now continues to grow, the movement invites us all to stop, reflect, and express gratitude to the people who have shaped our lives. The power of gratitude is transformative—it creates connections, deepens relationships, and enriches both the giver and the recipient. In Green’s words, “Close relationships are a treasure.” Say It Now encourages us all to cherish those relationships, to nurture them, and to let the people in our lives know just how much they matter. It’s a message of hope, connection, and community—and it’s a message that resonates across generations and cultures.

Whether through letters, social media, or face-to-face conversations, Say It Now invites you to be part of a global movement that changes lives—one expression of gratitude at a time. With every word spoken and every message shared, we are reminded of the importance of acknowledging those who have made a real difference. And in doing so, we enrich not only their lives but also our own.

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Drawing on thousands of notes from team meetings at his dealerships, the book was initially a professional reflection. However, with encouragement from his wife Diana and one of his daughters, Priestner added deeply personal stories, revealing a side of himself his children barely knew. In the opening chapter, Priestner recounts a chaotic childhood marked by alcoholic parents and financial instability. Despite these challenges, he says, “If the book helps anyone, I’m thrilled.”

In an interview, Priestner shared how his personal journey mirrors the hidden struggles many others experience, particularly the challenges that often remain unspoken. “We all have a story,” he said, noting that his transparency about his past was motivated by a desire to help his children and grandchildren understand his life better.

Priestner’s entrepreneurial journey began when he dropped out of university to sell cars, determined to avoid the financial hardships his parents faced. His determination quickly paid off—he became the top Chrysler salesman in Canada within his first year. From there, his career took off, and at the age of 26, he and his twin brother Mike bought into a struggling Chrysler dealership in London, Ontario. Within a year, the dealership turned around, and new car sales tripled.

However, the pressures of success took a toll. Priestner battled alcoholism, saw his first marriage end, and experienced a rift with his brother. But over time, he sought mindfulness practices and Buddhism, finding peace and balance in both his personal and professional life. He attributes much of his growth to working through his emotions and stresses the importance of this ongoing effort: “If you’re not working on that, your life is going to be pretty tough.”

Having founded AutoCanada, Priestner left the company in 2017. His book not only recounts his business success but also serves as a testament to his personal growth and journey toward contentment. All proceeds from the book go to Well-being Canada, a mental health initiative founded by Priestner and his wife Diana, which focuses on providing youth with wellness tools.

For more information, or to purchase the book, visit www.notesforthechildren.com or find it on Amazon.