Hello:

Well, not that I really think it’s for me to advise anyone else, but my gut tells me she sees the pain of having lost her/your child in you. The pain is too much and many externalize it as a result. Internalizing it is really the only way to really accept the reality of it it is akin to attempting to reach the higher consciousness levels through meditation – but it is very difficult, as well as an ongoing process that no one but the Self can undertake.

IMO, talking to others – so long as there is genuine trust and no power differential – can be very helpful. I wish you and your family healing and love. In the highest Forms.